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Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3

It's day three for actor Tom Hiddleston on his first trip with UNICEF UK, visiting Guinea in West Africa. Tom will be meeting with Guinean children, families and communities. He'll also be seeing several UNICEF projects, and finding out about our work in child protection, education, and water and sanitation. Read his first and second posts, or follow Tom's trip on Twitter at #tom_UNICEFUK and @twhiddleston.


Spending time with a family in the village of Loppe © UNICEF 2013/Harry Borden

To set the scene. Since we left Conakry, we have been driving east, driving deep into the most impoverished parts of the country, where terrain is arid, burned and rough. The road is red and dusty. On either side the land is dry and charred. We are heading east towards the border with Mali, which is closed and too dangerous for us to approach because of current instability. We won't go as far east as that, but it's instructive to see the poorest and most remote parts of the country, because child malnutrition, education and access to clean water will be at their worst out there.

The road is riddled with potholes, with deep trenches on each side, edging incrementally towards the tarmac, as if some terrifying creature from ancient myth had taken a huge bite out of the side. It's difficult to drive at speed, in spite of the paucity of other vehicles on the road. For one hour, you just ride it out. After six hours, your back is twitching and your head is swimming. Occasionally we pass local taxis with every inch of space is taken up by passengers. Occasionally we pass a fuel truck, snaking at a snail's pace around the scattered potholes like a minefield. I came expecting conditions to be hard – it appeals to my sense of adventure. I have no signal on my phone, I have nowhere else to be, I'm cut off from the rest of the world, and all I have are my thoughts and the great conversation of the team for company. It feels like borrowed time. Staring into the overarching sky. But of course the period of endurance is finite for me. In a week's time I'll be back in London, able to choose between the tube, a taxi, a car or bicycle to rush around at high speed. For local Guineans, this is life. These are the conditions they have to live with every day of their lives. These are the distances they have to travel: to get food, to get fuel, to wash their clothes in the river. It's a sobering thought.

In other news, my French is improving. Inevitably there are many local languages and dialects depending on the region, but French is mostly the order of the day, especially when communicating with local communities and medical authorities. "Il faut parler en français. Vous êtes sur?" they say. "Oui absolument, je comprends plus que je parle, mais je comprends la plupart des choses." Necessity breeds capacity. If I want to understand, I need to listen. And besides, it's fun.


On the radio in Bissikirima © UNICEF 2013/Harry Borden

On the French-speaking front, I was out of the frying pan and into the fire. On the morning of my third day, we were invited to the rural radio station of Bissikirima, which reaches the inhabitants in the region of Dabola in Guinea, covering some 171, 983 people. The Bissikirima radio is financed and funded by UNICEF, who also make provision for technological equipment, but it is staffed by local authority figures of energy and eloquence. We were greeted warmly and ushered into the studio to watch a live broadcast, l'émission. The ebullient DJ welcomes two guests into the booth, and in between musical interludes, they discuss local affairs, but also broadcast important information about some of the key issues I've already touched on: water, sanitation, breastfeeding, childhood immunisation and education. It suddenly makes me think of BBC Radio 4 and the Today programme, or NPR in the USA. The radio here keeps people informed, in touch and in the loop.

Crucially, though, the community is engaged in dialogue with itself. The mothers listening on the other end, living in the remote parts of the country have no idea that UNICEF is affiliated to the programme. They are simply listening to their favourite radio DJ, who happens to be discussing the importance of water and sanitation, and the upkeep of local latrines. The same goes for the 10-year-old boy who has parked his bike by the river and is listening along on his portable transistor. Perhaps he overhears a broadcast about handwashing. Perhaps it strikes home. UNICEF have found a unique way of helping the local community to set themselves up to be self-sustaining and self-educating. But the helping hand is invisible, just as when the UNICEF vaccines arrive in the villages to immunise new-born children against disease, without any branding on the syringes. The mothers, nurses and doctors do not know where the vaccinations come from, but they do know for sure that they come.

Ten minutes into the broadcast, there's a phone-in. Anyone can call the helpline, and the DJ and his colleagues are there to answer their questions. It's a brilliant idea. (Orange, the telecommunications company, has a huge presence in Guinea. It's the only advertising I see across the country. Many cannot sign their own names; but they all have a mobile phone). Moments later, I am invited into the booth to say hello to the listeners of the region of Dabola. It's one thing speaking my long-forgotten and broken French when conversing with a hospital doctor; it's quite another to suddenly be addressing untold numbers of local listeners live on air, in my capacity as a UNICEF supporter. All I can do is thank them for welcoming me, and I make a promise that I will share everything I see and learn with my friends and colleagues, that I will spread the word, and bring the problems of Guinea to the attention of the UK, and thereafter the world. The radio at Bissikirima is another tool for communication and education. It's one more drop in the ocean, which might one day turn the tide.

Communication is the key. After the broadcast I am introduced to a kindly man with a greying beard, dressed in mauve silks. He is a 'traditional communicator'. He has come to tell us how he conveys similar messages to those who perhaps don't listen to the radio, nor pay any heed to the advice of the local DPS (the chief medical officer) or UNICEF representatives after they have gone. He asks if we would like a demonstration of how he talks to more conservative members of the community about their problems. I would like that very much. "Very well," he replies, "this is how I talk to the grandfathers about the girls who cut themselves." His last words hang in the air. I don't quite understand and have to turn to Pauline for further clarification. He is going to tell us how he combats the continued practice of the genital mutilation of young women. It takes a moment to fully understand this. I am profoundly shocked to hear that there is such a practice. But he is already on his feet. He's a terrific actor.

"Where do you receive the power?" he booms to his colleague (playing the grandfather). "Where do you receive the power to tell the young women what to do with their bodies? Do you want your daughters to spend the rest of their lives in pain? Do you want your daughters to spend their lives crying into the night? And do you want your daughter's daughters also to spend their nights crying in shame?"

Ninety-five per cent of the women in Guinea are victims of genital mutilation. The practice is overwhelmingly the norm. Still more shocking is the fact that it is customarily performed on younger women by older women. It's a rite of passage from childhood to adulthood: a ritual that is supposed to prepare a woman with a capacity to endure pain; a signal lesson that pain is a constant, and must not be yielded to.

The traditional communicator tells me the custom stems from the myth of Abraham. Abraham had two wives, one older, one younger (the younger having previously been a servant to the older woman). But his first wife was always jealous of the second wife – jealous of the love and affection bestowed upon her by Abraham. This was exacerbated by the fact that the first wife bore Abraham no children, while the second wife gave Abraham two sons: Isaac and Ishmael. In a fit of jealous rage, his first wife 'cut' her rival, in order to make her seem less attractive and less desirable to Abraham. But Abraham's love for his second wife did not diminish after she had been cut. His affection for her perhaps even increased. Uncomprehending and in despair, his first wife then inflicted the same mutilation upon herself. "And that is why this is the custom among women," says the traditional communicator.

Whether most Guinean women know this story from folk history is another question, but it's disturbing how common the practice of female genital mutilation (l'excision) is. It's hard for UNICEF to strike the right balance in helping educate young and older women about this issue, especially because male circumcision has been proven significantly to reduce the risk of contracting HIV. But they are working with traditional communicators, who are trusted senior figures in rural communities, to spread the word among women that the practice of genital mutilation immeasurably increases the risk of mortality and disease in their children. It may affect the pregnancy and the health of their child. These mothers need help. Il faut aider et encourager les mamans. I realise with startling clarity once more: help the mothers – and you help the children.

Our next stop is the remote village of Loppe. We park up by the road. It's a mile-long walk to the village through the bush. Halfway along the path a distinguished gentleman in an impeccable khaki suit and tie pulls up on a motorcycle and tells me to hop on the back. On attend la delegation. Riding pillion on the back of a motorcycle through West African countryside under the midday sun delivers a shot of speed and adrenalin. It blows away a few cobwebs. It's great.


The road to Loppe © UNICEF 2013/Harry Borden

The atmosphere in Loppe seems peaceful and happy. We are here to visit UNICEF's sanitation programme and the latrines. The central imperative in a remote village like Loppe is to separate water sources, to keep access to the water wells clean, to protect them from run-off from the land in the rainy season, which is contaminated by animal waste, and guard the mouths of the wells from the animals themselves. We are also shown several defecation points. The UNICEF programme has helped to implement key practical design developments: providing concrete covers over the latrines to keep the flies out, building concrete walls to keep the animals away, provide kettles full of water and a bar of soap to wash your hands afterwards. If there's no bar of soap, there's a bucket of ash that will do the trick. This basic hygiene and good sanitation raises the standard of general health, and protects mothers and children from passing on disease.

What happened next was the most uplifting experience of my journey so far. I was invited by a young family into their home. They live in a circular hut, under which is one singular room, with a circumference of about 15 feet across. The roof is thatch made of straw. Inside I am introduced by Idrissa, the regional chief of UNICEF's office for Eastern Guinea, to a couple and their three children, a boy and two girls. They are uniformly beautiful. The father is calm and quiet, with an open, handsome face, while the mother is shy, her skin radiant, and a smile that could launch a thousand ships. Her children are well behaved, quiet and curious. Idrissa asks if I have any questions. I compliment them on their house, for it is beautiful inside. There is a bed, which serves also as bench and table, with various tools and pots hung strategically along the walls. I say how well her children look, how strong they seem. Her elder daughter reminds me of my niece. I ask if there have been any problems at all in their upbringing and nurture. "No," she says simply. Were they born at the centre de santé? "No," she says, "they were all born at home."

I ask if she had easy access to vaccinations. "Yes," she says. "The day they were born". She says their biggest problem is that they do not have enough food. They work hard, and still there is not enough. But they grow their own rice crop and haricots. Pauline asks if she was able to breastfeed her children. "Yes," she says, "for six months each of them". How did you know to do that, I ask. "I walked to the centre de santé," she replies, "when I was pregnant. They told me I should breastfeed. Also I heard it on the radio". That's fantastic, I say. I tell the father I have been looking at the water situation in the village, and the new programme for better water hygiene. He replies that it's very important. He always tells his son he must wash his hands before eating. I tell him his boy is looking strong, and that when I was a child I was always taught mens sana in corpore sano. A healthy mind in a healthy body. Idrissa translates. The father says this has made his day. It is a great honour for him. He is happy.


The difficulties of welling for clean water in Loppe © UNICEF 2013/Harry Borden

It is heartening and stirring to talk to a family who are doing it right, and who are taking responsibility for themselves and for their children. The team at UNICEF find it deeply inspiring, as do I. The messages are being heard. It's working.

The residents of Loppe give us a rousing send off by bursting into song as our convoy of motorbikes rev their engines and rocket off into the low afternoon sun. Buoyed up by our visit, there's time for a piece of bread and a slice of Vache Qui Rit cheese from the cool box, washed down with a can of coke and a tablet of malarone.

Then commences the long drive to Kankan. We pull on to the road, where our only company are the wandering cattle, who have become commonplace as traffic lights. Lethargic and listless, they look like they've been roaming the roads of Guinea since the dawn of time. And no doubt they will continue to long after we're gone.

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Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 11:57 AM

Muy importante su labor, el preocuparse por conocer mas de cerca la pobreza y las necesidades de estos niños lo que demuestra ser una bellisíma persona.

Me encanta Tom.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 11:58 AM

The top picture is too cute. Tom is truly raising awareness across the Internet via these blogs. Looking forward to the next.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:04 PM

It is very heart warming to hear his stories, makes me want to help out in any way I can.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:05 PM

Education, as ever, is key to the present and vital to the future. Thank you for bringing to light the many inspiring and lovely people who are trying their best to make a difference, as well as the sobering tales of those who yet struggle in the dark. It is wonderful to know that people are trying to make their world better, because that gives us hope that our efforts do make a difference. I shall be sharing your posts with my students here in Singapore so that they can reflect and think about how they can improve the lives of people about them too. Not just in their community within our small island, but in the community of humanity, and thank you again for your sincere and open sharing.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:06 PM

Brilliant!  I really hope that female circumcision will soon be a thing of the past (common problem throughout Africa) and that we'll see more family like the one you met where mothers are told the benefits of breastfeeding and vaccination.  Keep up the good work et je suis sur que ton Francais n'est pas aussi mauvais que tu pense.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:12 PM

Your amazing posts make me wish to work in UNICEF even more. Its amazing what they do all across Africa.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:14 PM

Wow... Your eloquence and insight in each post keeps me intrigued, and anticipating the next instalment.

Through my university studies in anthropology and archaeology, I am familiar with the practices you have described in here. Growing up in north-west Queensland (Australia), I am also very familiar with the environment and hardships of life in a rural environment. Yet your story - on behalf of the people you meet - has touched my heart more than I would have thought, and makes me question just how much I really know.

Your narrative has helped me to remember these experiences, and yet I can't help but think they are pale in comparison to what you must be seeing now. As much as I respect the struggles of Indigenous Australians (particularly around the Mount Isa - Camooweal / Northern Territory regions), the education and support systems here are heavily based on European assimilation.  The nature of the UNICEF work you have described is a brilliant focus, aimed at helping to expand education while developing independence and maintaining the cultural identity.

I look forward to your next post.

Regards,

Maree van Doorn

sironi27@gmail.com

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:18 PM

Love the first photo <3

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:20 PM

So heartening to hear about the family, but how terrible that such a barbaric mutilation of young women continues. Swings from one extreme to another. UNICEF must go from feeling so helpless to inspired and back with each family they come into contact with.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:31 PM

You convey what you have seen/heard with eloquence and intelligence.I am so glad that you are blogginf it back to us.The pictures are great but the blog gives us greater depth of understanding.So glad to be sharing your expereinces.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:54 PM

As a mother of three and an American, I thought I 'knew' about hunger, poverty, and sickness in other parts of the world, an informed person and caretaker. But since I've followed Tom Hiddleston's trip to Guinea with UNICEF UK, I realized that I, like many people in the US, I only had a vague concept of this, like something you might talk about at parties, or family gatherings. Tom's diary entries and photographs put individual human faces to this world wide problem.

I am so blessed, as an average middle class citizen, to be able to raise and care for my children, to have the resources available to make sure they are happy and healthy. I'm thankful to Mr. Hiddleston and others like him who use their notoriety to reach across the globe and make us all see that every mother should be able to care for their children, that every baby born has the right to be healthy, happy and safe.

Thank you for making me see. And reach out.

Catherine

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 12:59 PM

Compelling reading Tom x

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 1:14 PM

Thank you Tom, for these beautiful and well written blogs. It shows that you really care. And now I also care, because of you. I wouldn't have known all these things if you didn't write these blogs.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 1:27 PM

Thanks for sharing these experiences. It is very instructive.

As a woman I heard of "excision" before. I know that it is also practice in Europe by some immigrants from Africa. But I am chocked to learn that 95% of women are concerned in New Guinea.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 1:49 PM

Thanks, Tom, for your blogs. You write so clearly and vividly it is as I was there with you. Thank you, I'm learning a lot. Marilena

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 1:56 PM

Stirring words, graphic images, and hard thoughts. You are educating us as you are being educated. Continued thanks for doing this work and sharing this account. We need to know. "Necessity breeds capacity. If I want to understand, I need to listen." Amen.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 2:21 PM

Your involvement in this cause reminds me of great individuals like Karl Heinz Böhm (a famous Austrian actor who is now actively involved in charitable work in Ethiopa) and I have the feeling that you are very much willing and on your way to become a modern version of him.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 2:26 PM

Aw Tom. You're so caring

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 2:36 PM

It is wonderful, your bringing attention to these important issues.  It is obvious that your heart & mind are fully engaged in this journey you are on.  Your writing is inspirational and provocative, insightful and a call to action.  Whether you realize it or not, your actions and eloquence will inspire kindness and caring to women and children all over the globe.  May more funding and continued change follow.  Thank you for what you are doing.  

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 3:10 PM

What an outstanding story thus far. Thank you for your helping hand and for sharing with the world what things are like for those living in other parts. Keep up the great work! -DW

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 3:27 PM

This was very uplifting. It's good to see that UNICEF is making a positive change, and that the people are happy even in the midst of their troubles. You are a fabulous writer Tom!

Atiya

@TyaBya

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 3:32 PM

I have read about excision of the female genitalia in high school when our French teacher made us read an excerpt from Waris Dirie book Desert Flower (en.wikipedia.org/.../Waris_Dirie) and I have to admit, my heart was racing, my soul was shaking and my entire being was pretty shook up as an occidental teenager coming face to face with that - being a girl myself. To read in detail how the process is done was the most terrifying thing I have ever come across in my life. When I learned how common practice it is over such a huge geographical region and even in some Arabic countries such as Yemen (a recent discovery) I was baffled and shocked. (Even in occidental medieval times such things would have not be done!)

On a lighter not - it would quite the delight to hear you speak in French! (which after my mother tongue, i consider my adoptive mother tongue since I speak it more than my Hungarian and my English)

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 3:41 PM

good works Tom

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 4:03 PM

It's shocking to realise that a majority of us are living in ignorance to suffering of others. Through the actions and experiences of yourself and others, you're aiding the cause of awarence. Good job and thanks. April.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 4:22 PM

I already knew about the excision thing and it is in fact an overwhelming subject. My genitals hurt everytime I hear about it. It's horrible. Anyway, Vache qui rot. VACHE QUI ROT. Made my day. It's Vache qui rit. There is a huge difference between the two words. The burping cow and the laughing cow. Trust me I'm french. But hey, it's okay. I hope you keep the desire to learn french after your trip. It's such a beautiful way to express oneself and opens the horizon.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 4:30 PM

You are doing wonderful things by sharing every step of your journey- your French is clearly better than mine- Mon Français est très mauvais-- If I tried to say hello- I'd probably end up telling some one to jump in a lake or something.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 4:46 PM

That the practice of genital mutilation is still so common saddens me deeply. I admire the man who is going out and speaking to the fathers and grandfathers of the women affected. I hope he is and continues to make an impact in stopping the brutal and horrific practice.

Your words, as always, are poetic and transformative. I find myself lost in your descriptions and can almost taste the dust of the village roads as I read. But even more importantly, you evoke in the reader a need to get off our rears and do something ourselves to help those in need around the world. You, sir, are an inspiration. It always humbles me to see an actor or celebrity take time and give of themselves, but I think what touches me the most about your journey is your ability to come across not as a celebrity doing a good deed, which often seems to be the case, but as a fellow human being caring about what happens to his own people in this world that we share. You are an admirable man, Tom. Not because you use your celebrity for good, but because you love and care about the human race you are a part of. You truly humble me.

Stay safe on your travels. I look forward to reading about your continuing journey.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 4:47 PM

That the practice of genital mutilation is still so common saddens me deeply. I admire the man who is going out and speaking to the fathers and grandfathers of the women affected. I hope he is and continues to make an impact in stopping the brutal and horrific practice.

Your words, as always, are poetic and transformative. I find myself lost in your descriptions and can almost taste the dust of the village roads as I read. But even more importantly, you evoke in the reader a need to get off our rears and do something ourselves to help those in need around the world. You, sir, are an inspiration. It always humbles me to see an actor or celebrity take time and give of themselves, but I think what touches me the most about your journey is your ability to come across not as a celebrity doing a good deed, which often seems to be the case, but as a fellow human being caring about what happens to his own people in this world that we share. You are an admirable man, Tom. Not because you use your celebrity for good, but because you love and care about the human race you are a part of. You truly humble me.

Stay safe on your travels. I look forward to reading about your continuing journey.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:09 PM

To read the highs and lows of this trip so eloquently and truthfully narrated in almost 'Real time' by Tom Hiddleston is truly inspiring. The description of the realities of this other world and the essential work carried out often incognito by Unicef to help each individual to a better life puts western style anxieties into shameful perspective. All hail Unicef and Tom Hiddleston for your humanity. @TaniaJHungary

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:09 PM

To read the highs and lows of this trip so eloquently and truthfully narrated in almost 'Real time' by Tom Hiddleston is truly inspiring. The description of the realities of this other world and the essential work carried out often incognito by Unicef to help each individual to a better life puts western style anxieties into shameful perspective. All hail Unicef and Tom Hiddleston for your humanity. @TaniaJHungary

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:25 PM

To read the highs and lows of this trip so eloquently and truthfully narrated in almost 'Real time' by Tom Hiddleston is truly inspiring. The description of the realities of this other world and the essential work carried out often incognito by Unicef to help each individual to a better life puts western style anxieties into shameful perspective. All hail Unicef and Tom Hiddleston for your humanity. @TaniaJHungary

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:25 PM

Tom, you are a Brilliant and stirring writer! These stories will no doubt change many people, as I know it has changed you, and will inspire so much. Please keep up the amazing work and I will be praying for you!

nichola price wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:26 PM

I've been following you and the team on your trip, and was struck today by how much, do I mean "simpler" my life is to that of the mother you met. She contemplates whether she can feed her children, whilst I sat here deciding not whether I can feed my sons, but what to chose from the freezer 4 feet away. And whilst she has no or little money for basic survival necessities, I scrabble around working out the right change to pay for my 5 year olds disco this week. Whilst she walks miles for basic suuplies, I'm ashamed to say we thought twice about walking the half mile to the local shop to get bread and milk during the snow. Your reports make me look on life with new eyes and appreciate anew just how grateful I should be for my simple life.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:30 PM

I think it is amazing how Tom is doing this! Not only is he able to go and help and educate the people of Guinea, but he is also educating the world! I have a mighty need to go and help out too. And hopefully this will spread and like tom said: "It’s one more drop in the ocean, which might one day turn the tide."

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:33 PM

The Old Testament might be folklore to many, but to others, it was real. I can believe that that may have truly happened. A lot of that part of the bible is about Facts: family trees and records, records of wars fought, records of kings and rulers.. perhaps the writers of the time didn't have the words and knowledge we have today, to describe some of the sights they saw. They described them the best they couldforfor the times.. but the Book is not one of folklore. It is a collection of records, ancestry.ca, The Huffington Post, and Better Homes And Gardens, wrapped into one. Lol

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:38 PM

I hope you are having a wonderful time there Tom. It reminds me so much of my own experience - I went to Northern Ghana (poorest and most isolated part of the country) to work in a orphanage for 2 months when I was 18. People there had never seen a white person before. Children kept touching my (blond !) hair and pinching my skin to see it go white (something impossible with black skin..). I'm French and my English is not too bad, but like you, this was quite a small village where basically no one can speak anything else but the (incomprehensible for me) Mampruli local language. I was the only volunteer there, and as you can guess it, communication was the hardest of things during the first weeks, but when I look back on it, I have shared so much with them, I think it made me a better person. Keep it in your soul. Bon voyage :-)

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 5:42 PM

Wow, I would have to say this entry will really stick with me.  I found myself horror-stuck over issue of genital mutilation of young women.  Its very saddening and I left still thinking "why?".  This is something I didn't even knew existed

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 6:07 PM

Yet another beautifully written piece by Tom. Reading about the family in Loppe, just fills your heart with hope for their future. Clean water is a rudimentary essential that everyone should have access to. It still baffles me that in the 21st century, with all of the amazing technology that we have, that millions still don't have this basic lifesource. As is often the case with countries like Guinea, its the infastructure & logistics that are lacking. Roads are near impassible, so getting basic equipment, be it for well building or medical supplies, is a tough & time consuming endeavour. Its heartening to see Unicef & other organisations taking on this responsibilty & slowly but surly getting systems in place. Governments can be ill equiped to deal with such large issues, either through corruption or simply through lack of help from larger wealthier nations, who often ask what is in it for them finacially, rather than morally.

Even in the UK the help for mothers can be somewhat lacking. My dearest friend helps as a volunteer for a local organisation helping new mothers. They provide peer to peer help via home visits & telephone support. It was felt that mums who had previous experience could help to pass that on to new mums. This then frees up healthcare workers to deal with more medical problems.It was just Mums helping Mums. Its schemes like this that have such far reaching influence, one minute its helping new mums in the UK, then in time it could be doing the same in Guinea.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 6:08 PM

love it !! exelent writing in th three of them !! looking foward th next one !! keep us posted babe..love xx

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 7:17 PM

To improve the health of people in developing countries, the two most important things are clean drinking water and proper wastewater treatment.  These things are what we should focus on, NOT vaccinations.  With proper sanitation and safe water, disease incidence is reduced dramatically. This has happened in the developed world, where the incidence of many diseases dramatically decreased with the introduction of improved sanitation, NOT the introduction of vaccines!  An example of this is polio.  Look it up for yourself. Don't just make an assumption that vaccines work, because that simply is not true.  That may be the spin that UNICEF puts on it, but if you spend time and educate yourself about vaccines, a much different picture will come to light.   There are many risks to vaccines that drug companies try to cover up, because vaccines are BIG money for them.  Vaccinating a newborn baby?  Talk about giving the immune system a kick in the you-know-what!!  Don't just believe what the medical establishment says- follow the facts, not the propaganda.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 7:24 PM

That story of Abraham is from the bible, but it doesn't go like that. There's no genital cutting. I'm curious how it got changed.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 7:37 PM

Enjoy being brought into what's happening on the other side of the world. Thank you, TH. Mr.Borden is taking some stellar pictures... cheers to your team. Blessings

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:01 PM

You are an amazing writer, Tom. I wish you luck with the rest of the week. Interestingly, I never knew these issues were going on in Guinea. It's a country that is never mentioned on the news here in the US (but that really doesn't say much because generally the US is too interested in it's own petty ridiculousness to care what's happening outside of the country). I am very glad you decided to go along and to blog too. I am originally from the UK, so am used to fantastic BBC journalism and yours is up there with that level of quality. I am "enjoying" your blog, if that's the right word for it. Please keep it up. Fantastic. Thank you. Be safe, especially from those mosquitos and spiders. xx

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:12 PM

Very, very interesting. I haven't words to describe my feelings after reading this story.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:16 PM

Very moving. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us! It really does put a different perspective on the things we take for granted every day, and helps us appreciate the everyday blessings God provides us with.

ellem nunes murtinho wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:31 PM

Estou muito emocionada com este lindo trabalho da UNICEF e com o Tom, um ator que eu admiro muito.

Fico contente em ver muitas pessoas preocupadas com nossos irmãos que necessitam de muito mais que alimento, mas sim de amor e atenção. Creio que vai mudar a vida do TOM assim como pode mudar a vida de muitas pessoas.

Um dia quem sabe, eu como Assistente Social poderei ir fazer uma visita e ver este belo trabalho de perto.

Parabéns a iniciativa da UNICEF e o TOM por ter aceitado ver este trabalho de perto.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:32 PM

You're narratives are beautiful. I can easily imagine Guinea and it's inhabitants. Thank you for your eye-opening journey. I had no idea it was like this. One just assumes it's a couple of small villages, not an entire country. I shall endeavor to share your words.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:51 PM

Never been interested in donating outside the US, coming from a poor family and all but now I have a job and the only things I'm struggling with are gender issues

If one man could get me to donate its Tom.

--Ashtyn Hofhine

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:56 PM

this blogs no only have made me aware of the difficult situation in Guinea and the amazing work UNICEF does, but also it had made me really grateful of what i have

Momfrog Lorita wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 8:57 PM

Thank you, Tom, for helping to open the eyes of a great many people about the real world. All 3 blogs have been thought-provoking with funny moments and heart-tugging moments. Thank you for bringing attention to UNICEF's tireless efforts on behalf of the children of the world.  You have a good, kind, compassionate heart.  

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:08 PM

Amazing to hear about this. I honestly had no idea things were that bad in countries like that. I'm proud to be a supporter of UNICEF and its cause. Just amazing!

Oh and, La Vache Qui Rit - The Laughing Cow (fun fact for anyone who's interested)

Cailin Thompson wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:11 PM

It's wonderfully inspiring to hear that the are villages and individual families that are learning from the aide and education that they have been given and taking the initiative to make the lives a bit healthier and happier. It truly does make my heart happy. That one family will act as an inspiration to the other families around them. It will grow and blossom. It only takes a spark, right?

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:13 PM

Tom você deixou o conforto de seu lar para viver esta experiência unica junto com a UNICEF,para mostrar para o mundo o que se passa na África ocidental,claro que temos consciência de tudo isso mas poucos fazem algo para ajudar por este motivo que admiro seu trabalho como ator e ser humano sensível e único

em tudo que realiza.Deus esteja sempre em teu coração  

Cynthia Lutje wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:28 PM

Unfortunately in so many cultures today women are the victims of this type of misguided tradition,mutilation,breast binding and other sorts of customs that are abusive. They use false stories that have no basis in fact,it shows how damaging it is to be uneducated and not able to question what you are being told. When women are treated like second class citizens and are not able to have access to any kind of outside knowledge it will always be to her disadvantage and unfortunately that will be passed onto her children as well. These traditions are being past down to the next generation,but not the important practice of breast feeding. Education is definitely the key to change. Teach the women and the mothers and the children will be brought up with the knowledge. A mothers lessons taught to her children are the ones that are the most influentual in their lives,being the first ones they ever learn from birth on. Thank you for ending your blog on a positve note and giving us hope that their lives are being changed for the better. It all begins with one step at a time,thanks for being there and taking all of us with you,and thank you for giving of the most valuable things;your time,love and heart. 

Momfrog Lorita wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:35 PM

Rays of hope for the future!  Although many of the difficulties the people of Guinea face daily seem insurmountable, it's good to know there are efforts -- both by UNICEF and the country's own people themselves -- to address and correct the issues.  And seeing the success of the family who so graciously invited you into their home, it is wonderful to realize these efforts ARE having a positive effect.  How easy it is for us to take for granted fresh drinking water, or a flushable toilet that takes our waste somewhere else.  As a female I am horrified by the practice of female genitalia mutilation; as a human being I am also just as horrified.  I understand what has been acceptable in their culture is unfathomable to me; I'm just grateful there are others who agree by teaching the women this practice will eventually be halted.

Thank you again for sharing with us.  For giving us a fresh perspective on what is working and what still needs improvement.  For understanding your world as you know it will return ... and yet it will be forever changed in your psyche.  Hopefully we'll also remember what you've experienced and we'll be changed as well.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:55 PM

Thank you for your newest thoughtful entry that continues to help bring to light the wondrous beauty and deep sorrow of Guinea.  

Upon reading

“… this is how I talk to the grandfathers about the girls who cut themselves,”

I furrowed my brow in confusion. It all came back to me when you continued:

“…  the continued practice of the genital mutilation of young women.”

A long time ago, I read about female genital mutilation or cutting, how it is so deeply rooted in the culture of Africa, and how masses of women have suffered and will suffer, but I did not think about it again ‘til just now.

So easy to forget when one is outside of it.  This is why it’s so important to help bring about awareness, to end what is considered the norm.  Through education, communication, and with our support, UNICEF can overcome seemingly impossible hurdles.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 9:58 PM

The strength and bravery you must have to hear these sad and disturbing tales and still be able to take joy at the end of the day is a strength I wish that I had in myself, but your strength is infectious and as you share that strength and personal sun with the locals you interact with, so too do you share it with us, and I for one feel deeply honoured to get to hear of your experiences. They inspire me, as do you.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 10:10 PM

Uplifting .Tom has become more solemn as he discovers more about Guinea.He says that will return home soon however I believe a part of himself will remain in Guinea for ever.Let us all do what we can to help the children.

Sofia Wells wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 11:24 PM

Reading your report I realise, again, how blessed I am to have been born in England, to have had the education to create my own business, to become financially independent, with the opportunity to travel beyond my small village in Berkshire, experience the world and most importantly the freedom to make choices about my body, to choose with whom I share my life and not to have children if I so wish.

I have seen poverty in India, experienced female repression in the Middle East. But the world you describe in your diary, is so alien, in a culture where a woman’s main role is to be a wife and mother, the fact that 95% experience genital mutilation is horrifying and shocking. It is more than a signal lesson that pain is a constant; it is a direct assault on a woman's sexuality. It's about control and domination. If a woman is unable to enjoy sex, then she is unlikely to cheat and so any babies she has will be her husband’s children, perhaps a more accurate interpretation of the “myth of Abraham.”

It is a frightening demonstration of the power of culture and tradition within a community. From my work I know that to make any type of cultural change there has to be a clear tangible benefit, traditional communicators spreading the word among women that the practice of genital mutilation increases the risk of mortality and disease in their children is an uphill battle when a man is looking for a traditional “cut” woman to be his wife especially when there is no clear evidence, unlike the proof that by giving your child vaccinations, they WILL NOT DIE from these diseases, clean water WILL STOP sickness but female circumcision MAY affect the pregnancy.

To my mind, there needs to be a clear obvious benefit created to encourage communities to stop this practice, what would make an un-cut woman more attractive to a male than a cut one. How could this work, what could be done – increase the dowry of an uncut woman perhaps.

And this is where I thank you, each year my company looks for a charity project to support and I think you have just given us the one we will support for 2013.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Jan 27 2013 11:41 PM

An extraordinary & vivid account, thank you.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 12:01 AM

Reading Tom's blog, you are more aware of the importance that is to know day to day of these people, of these children. Knowing is the key for helping.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 12:39 AM

Vache Qui Rit*

B.A.S. wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 12:59 AM

Learning about the family in Loppe makes me exceedingly happy and hopeful; thank you for including your experience with them. Their story must feel incredibly auspicious and reassuring for UNICEF and all of you over there right now. Though you may only seem to be there to bring attention to the situation, families such as that one, the radio station discussing and disseminating knowledge about those prominent issues - it all serves to show that what you're doing over there, all of you, is important, and amazing, and it is making a real difference.

I wanted to wait until I could see all of the other comments on here so I could feel like I'm having more of a conversation with my response, but in my I couldn't seem to wait. Your experiences in Loppe, your previous conversations with the Focus Group in Saramoussayah, and the children at Tinafan are all inspiring because they show us that though we feel but little in the grand scheme of things, we can be fierce in pursuit of something meaningful. And when we ally ourselves and passionately work together, for each other, we move worlds.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 1:21 AM

You know... I was working today and i checked twitter to see what was going on during a break. I read what you wrote and I started to feel bad. Not simply bad but VERY, VERY BAD. I know it's selfish but i couldn't go on reading after the part of the Genital Mutilation. I was 8 when i first read "Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia"  where they talk about this practice and at that time i really didn't realise how bad it was. Still, I remember that i thought it was horrible and not something that should happen and I was happy to be italian and living in a place where this practice is illegal. I was 8 and now I understand that is at that age that usually women have to face that horrible fate in some countries.

It really makes me mad the story they told you about why they do that. It's not simply because they changed the story (i'm not talking about religions, I'm atheist) it's because they try to explain something so cruel. There are no good reasons to do that. And it's more than shocking for me to know that yes, most of the times are the mothers asking for this for their daughters.

Thank you for your words Mr Hiddleston, it makes me a little bit happier to know that also men are against it and trying to stop it... I hope that one day genital mutilation will be just a nightmare and not reality for all the women around the world.

Alice D.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 1:48 AM

So wonderful to see that all the hard work of the kind people at UNICEF is paying off, slowly but surely!

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 2:13 AM

It shocked me too when I learned about the genital mutilation of young females in a documentary a few months back, it is something really horrible.

I am happy to read about, the message actually getting heard by the people, and that children are learning the importance of hygiene.

As always you have written this journal marvelously, thank you for taking us with you through your journey.

nthmost wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 3:04 AM

These are such good journalings. Heart-wrenching, head-shaking, but uplifting too.

My empathy on the French! But it sounds like you are doing the right thing and throwing yourself into the thick of it. People appreciate it so much when you make the effort to speak and to hear them in their own language.  Bon courage!

Your experiences are enriching your fans and beyond. Be well, stay well, and keep spreading goodness.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 3:38 AM

I think it is so wonderful what you and UNICEF are doing to help the people of Guinea. I hope that many people are reached and receive information on how to take better care of themselves. God bless you and the people in Guinea.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 4:21 AM

dear tom: you´re amazing. I just love you

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 7:36 AM

Amazing Tom!!

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 10:40 AM

Your blog is revealing. Bridge to a reality unknown to many, too familiar to others. Where I live boats arrive from Africa in search of a better future. Men, women and children in terrible conditions. Some young women have suffered the genital mutilation, many children with malnutrition ... The message is so important as keeping the support to Guinea & other countries in the hardest conditions of life.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 1:00 PM

How wonderful! family a blessed and beautiful. It's good to see that even close to as many sad stories of women multiladas, we can see that there is hope when information reaches those lives! # gratifying.

ROBERTA

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 1:54 PM

Genital mutilation is one of the most barbaric practices ever known.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 3:49 PM

From Chari: 95% ?!?! I knew about this, but none about the percentage... This IS shocking... :( :(

But you might be right. A small step forward is a step anyway. Just soooo unbelievable, that during the preparations of a Mars-expedition we still have these problems...

People still don't know what is truly important in life.

LIFE IS.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 5:10 PM

Wow! It looks like you are having a lot of fun! That is so neet that you get to go and help these people who struggle for what we take for granted. The way you describe it is beautiful. God be with you.

-T

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 6:25 PM

It's so very important to travel to countries like Guinea and see how very basic and common necessities have such a huge impact on people's lives. It is hard to get out of our comfortable boxes and be willing to see the needs. Thank you for doing so, and writing so eloquently about your journey. If we all seek to make a small difference, together we can impact the world.

nisamar wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 7:33 PM

this world is so unfair but thanks for doing a little better...

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 8:31 PM

Well done, Tom! Thanks to be our eyes and ears, and to write with your hearth..

Silvia Naylor wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 9:18 PM

I am spiritualist and believe we are here for a purpose, a mission. I would like that all personal missions were directed to good intentions and with a purpose of improving humanity. It's a dream unfortunately. But when I see people like you and so many others doing the right I feel very happy. Thanks to all the help that UNICEF has given to this community.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Mon, Jan 28 2013 11:43 PM

"They live in a circular hut, under which is one singular room, with a circumference of about 15 feet across." Tom, I think you mean the diameter is 15 feet, not circumference. Otherwise the hut is way too small for anyone to live inside.

With love.

IX

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 12:54 AM

It's terrible! They are very strong people.

georgina hidalgo pego wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 5:25 AM

In many countries and communities to be a woman continues being very difficult, but as your diary confirms, the worst misfortune for the human being is the ignorance. The genital mutilation has a background machist and is very cruel. In my country you can change a woman for a cow, though you do not like the fiance. You're warm description about your visit to a family in Loppe is beautiful. Good night, Tom.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 9:18 AM

It's wonderful that the family in Loppe is listening to the teachings and advice from Unicef! The radio broadcast and traditional communicator are a marvelous idea. I have a question if you have the time to answer, when you say that some latrines don't have a bar of soap "but a bucket of ash will do the trick", what is a bucket of ash? Where does it come from and how does it work similar to soap? I am truly inspired by your work with Unicef and think you are a rare and brave soul! God Bless Mr. Hiddleston, please be safe and I look forward to reading more about your mission.

-Lisa F.-

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 9:27 AM

It's wonderful to know that differences can be made. You'll never forget this.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 4:17 PM

The biblical story of Abraham is different from the one you described. I understand that the story could have been misinterpreted in translation somewhere along the line.  However, Abraham only had one wife, Sarah. Even after God promised them a son Sarah became frustrated and told Abraham to conceive with her maidservant Hagar so that perhaps she "will [a]obtain children through her [Hagar]." When Hagar did conceive, that is when Sarah became jealous and treated her harshly (it does not say specifically how).   Later, Sarah finally did give birth to a son named Isaac.  The full story can be found in Genesis chapters 16-18, 21.  It is sad that the story has been misinterpreted to this effect.  I wish UNICEF the best in helping people across the globe.  

KatMack wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 8:35 PM

Again, so much emotion. You can feel it so much, its like you're there with him.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Tue, Jan 29 2013 9:18 PM

Just read the blog UNICEF do an amazing job helping young people get their lives back and saving young lives to. Keep up the amazing work that you do

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Wed, Jan 30 2013 4:25 AM

The genital mutilation is a strong subject, I ve heard of this a few years ago when I was in High school ( now 30) and couldn t believe it. It's interesting how different the story of Abraham is in guinean culture from the catholic one, in which Sarah( the 1st wife) gave birth to Isaac and Agar (the 2nd wife) gave birth to Ismael, and how in the bible it's not mentioned the mutilation scene. Just wanted to point that. This experiences you're living it's definitely life changing and Im glad that UNICEF is making a better world . Be Safe, luv you. Marce X

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Wed, Jan 30 2013 3:06 PM

Tom is unique...

trishagunn08 wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Wed, Jan 30 2013 5:34 PM

Wow, this was amazing to read. I believe it would be so refreshing and relaxing to spend some time in guinea. It would be a great way to truly appreciate what I have living in America. I look forward to your next post and my thoughts and prayers are with you and everyone in guinea.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Thu, Jan 31 2013 10:17 PM

Vous me faites sourire! Continuer à faire ce que vous faites :)

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Fri, Feb 1 2013 6:30 AM

I'm running out of things to say that haven't already been said, and yet, I want to speak.

I suppose I should say, 'Great job, Mr. Hiddleston!' But that is oversaid

This blog is a doorway to another country. Have you considered complaining your experiences into a book, perhaps a biography? I assume that is the point of this blog, though. So never mind. It is very touching and interesting to see how people live in that country. And we haven't quite studied New Guinea in history yet. Thank you for making this public and free.

    I'm sure your French was fine. Don't fret.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Fri, Feb 1 2013 12:34 PM

The entire issue of female circumcision is deeply troubling. Abraham is not a myth, but the entire "add on" of his wife cutting the servant IS. If these people want to adopt and believe things from the Bible (which I do), it would be beyond wonderful if they knew what it actually said. Some man in history decided to have this done to women, and clearly used their ignorance of God's Word as a tool for manipulation. This infuriates me.  I will most certainly be praying more for the sweet souls that endure this life.

Anonymous wrote re: Tom Hiddleston's Guinea field diary: Day 3
on Sun, Feb 3 2013 7:47 AM

So I will admit I have been dithering to add a comment. But I keep getting a prompting and it won't go away. So a comment or two.

First I am to address is the Story of Abraham, a clear case of wrong information being handed down through generations.Because that version is like really wrong, it's Abraham's story, but with the sole element of loving the younger wife better from His grandson Jacob's Story.. Abraham had two wives, Sarah was his first wife who gave birth to Issac, Hagar was Sarah's maid and she gave birth to Ismael. Abraham only had Hagar as a wife because Sarah gave her to him as a means to have children because Sarah was barren at the time. But there was no favoritism in Abraham's story. BTW there was no mutilations in Jacob's story either.  Sorry but as a Christian when I read that I freaked! All those women suffered because someone somewhere down the line got their wires crossed and in the mix there was added the genitalia mutilation. Makes me want to throw up in my mouth just to think about that.

The fact that the women preform it is not surprising since they are probably not inclined to let a man do it. And the practice is not isolated to Africa, it occurs in the middle east too I do believe, and what's more is the practice is now making it's way to other places like here at home.  

Education & Communication is important as the one family illustrated. When you have the information you need, there is very little that you cannot do to improve the situation at hand. George Bernard Shaw once said; The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. This is true, communication is only as good as the people involved in it. Both sides need to be invested in it. It's wonderful that traditional communicators like the gentleman you met are getting out there to those who do not communicate via the mainstream methods. Keeping the message uniform is half the battle, the delivery can be different but the message must remain the same.  This is crucial as if a young mom is given varying information from people, it can have adverse effects.

It's interesting to read the perspective of someone who is seeing these things for the first time, it keeps the numbness of it all from creeping up to swallow you whole.  

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